32 Signs that Mean a Boy is Interested in You

Figuring out if your crush likes you or is just being funny – it’s tough, right? Here are 32 subtle but sureshot signs a boy is interested in you.

Being in love is a great thing, especially when you are young and in your teens. Teens are the times when your mind and body are going bonkers. Not getting scientific here, but it’s natural to go through a phase like this or how else would life find a way?

Whether you are a boy or a girl, I would advise you never to make fun of a person who approaches you seeking your love and attention. At that age, it’s hard to express one’s emotions to another, as people around you are trying to find ways to ridicule you at every moment, everywhere.

Why is It Easy to Assume a Boy is Interested in You (When He’s Not)?

You can easily get swayed into thinking that your crush likes you. Girls and boys often purposely lead you into believing this and give mixed signals of love. After all, who doesn’t want to have the attention of the world? However, these are difficult times for the mind, as on the one hand you are under pressure to make a career and on the other, you have to find the love of your life. No matter who you are, once you are older, you are highly likely to regret not asking out the one person who you may have had a chance with, so don’t hold back!

Your teens (or at least the young mind within you) can continue till you are in your thirties or forties. As they say, thirties are the new twenties!

Signs that a Boy Likes You

What they say about boys is kinda true, “They like you, so they are making fun of you.” Boys have some unique, or even counter-intuitive ways of showing their feelings of attraction for a girl. So here are 32 signs from my and my friends’ personal experience that a boy may be interested in you.

1. He compliments you frequently: If he’s always telling you how pretty you look or how much he likes your outfit, he’s trying to win you over with sweet words.
2. He keeps acting cool and confident around you: Is he tripping over his words or sweating profusely when you are near? Yeah, that’s a sign the boy is interested in you.
3. He’s always around you: If a boy seems to be popping up everywhere you go, he’s probably got a major crush on you. He’ll show up at the same parties, sit next to you in class, and always find a way to be in your general vicinity
4. He tries to make you laugh:  A boy who’s interested in a girl will do anything to make her smile. He might tell you silly jokes or do something goofy to get your attention.
5. He’s protective of you – If he’s quick to defend your honor or always making sure you’re safe, he’s showing you that he cares.
6. He asks you about your interests – If a boy is interested in you, he will want to know everything about you, from your favorite TV shows to your hobbies and passions or ambitions.
7. He tries to impress you – He tries to show off his skills or talk about his accomplishments, he wants you to see him in the best possible light.
8. He remembers the details – If he remembers your birthday or the name of your pet hamster, he’s paying attention to the little things that matter to you.
9. He wants to spend time with you: When you are at the movies or just hanging out, he’s always looking for a way to be near you. He will try to make plans with you, or ask you about your plans.
10. He’s a little jealous: If he gets upset when you talk to other boys or seem to be spending too much time with someone else, it’s a clear sign that he’s interested.
11. He mirrors your body language: If he subconsciously starts to copy your movements or leans in when you do, it’s a sign that he’s paying close attention to you. He’ll even try to mimic you, pretending to make fun of the way you talk or walk.
12. He initiates physical touch – A boy who’s interested in a girl may find excuses to touch you, like brushing against your arm or giving you a hug. Very high chance your guy may get awkward.

13. He’s always available: If he’s willing to drop everything to be with you, even if it means canceling plans with his friends, it’s a sign that you’re a top priority.
14. He shares personal information – If he’s opening up about his fears, dreams, and aspirations, he’s showing you that he trusts you and values your opinion.
15. He teases you – Playful teasing can be a sign of flirtation, especially if he’s trying to make you laugh or see your reaction. These are signs that a boy is interested in you.

16. He’s interested in your friends and family – A boy who’s invested in a girl will want to know more about the people who matter to her and may even try to impress them. He may find excuses to meet your friends or family.
17. He compliments you on things beyond your appearance. While it’s nice to be told that you look pretty, a boy who’s truly interested will also compliment you on your intelligence, kindness, and other admirable traits.
18. He shares his interests with you – If he invites you to go to concerts, watch his favorite movies, or try out new hobbies with him, it’s a sign that he wants to share his passions with you. He’ll even ask you about your tastes, like your favorite music or movies.
19. He remembers important dates – If he sends you a message on your graduation day or remembers the anniversary of their first date, it’s a sign that you hold a special place in his heart.
20. He talks about the future – If he’s bringing up future plans that include you, like talking about going to college in the same city or taking a road trip together, he’s showing that he sees you as a part of his long-term vision. That means a boy is interested in you, not just that but he actually sees a future with you.
21. He finds reasons to call or text you – If a boy is interested, he’ll look for excuses to start a conversation with you, whether it’s about homework, or just to say hi. He’ll even ask you random questions he already knows the answers to.

22. He gets shy or flustered when you’re around – If he seems to lose his words or can’t make eye contact, he’s probably feeling nervous. And that’s because he likes you!
23. He’s interested in your social media – If he’s always checking your social media profiles or liking your posts, it’s a sign that he wants to stay connected and see what you’re up to. If the discrete type, he may not actually “like” your post on social media, but he’ll make sure to let you know he was checking out your posts, either by commenting on them when he meets you or through DMs.
24. He gives you special attention: If he goes out of his way to make you feel special, like bringing you a drink at a party or letting you choose the movie you watch, it’s a sign that he’s interested in you.

25. He shows a genuine interest in your opinions and thoughts: A boy who’s interested will listen carefully to what you have to say and value your input.
26. He’s always smiling when he’s with you: If a boy is interested in you, he will seem happier and more relaxed when you’re around. It’s a sign that he enjoys your company and is interested in getting to know you better.
27. He seeks your approval: If he’s always looking for validation or trying to impress you, it may indicate that he values your opinion and wants to win you over.
28. He’s protective of you: If he’s quick to defend you or offer support, it may be a sign that he sees you as someone he cares for and wants to keep safe.
29. He shows empathy and compassion – If he’s sensitive to your feelings and takes the time to listen to your problems, it may show that he’s interested in your emotional well-being and cares about you as a person.
30. He’s persistent in his pursuit: If he keeps trying to get your attention or asks you out multiple times, it may indicate that he’s serious about pursuing a relationship with you.
31. He’s attentive to your needs: If he pays attention to the little things, like remembering your favorite foods or offering to carry your backpack, it may show that he’s attentive and cares about making you happy.
32. He’s supportive of your goals and aspirations: If he encourages you to pursue your dreams and helps you in any way he can, it may show that he’s interested in building a future with you and supporting you in your endeavors.

So there you have it, ladies! We’ve gone through 32 different signs that a boy is interested in you. Of course, not all of these signs will apply to every situation, and some guys might be more subtle or direct than others. But if you’re noticing several of these signs from a particular guy, it’s definitely worth considering that he might have a crush on you.

Remember, though, that the best way to know for sure if a guy likes you is to simply ask him. It can be scary, but it’s also the most straightforward way to find out. And even if he doesn’t feel the same way, at least you’ll know for sure and won’t have to keep guessing.

So go ahead and put these signs to the test, but don’t forget to trust your instincts and communicate openly with the guys you’re interested in. Good luck out there!

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